Ask yourself three questions:
1) Is it a duty or an office?
2) Is it a physical or spiritual ministry?
3) Is it a leadership, or a servant role?

DIAKONEO - verb (to deacon)
1247 diakoneo (dee-ak-on-eh'-o)
AV-minister unto 15, serve 10, minister 7, misc 5; 37
1)) to be a servant, attendant, domestic, to serve, wait upon
1a) to minister to one, render ministering offices to
1a1) to be served, ministered unto
1b) to wait at a table and offer food and drink to the guests,
1b1) of women preparing food
1c) to minister i.e. supply food and necessities of life
1c1) to relieve one's necessities (e.g. by collecting alms), to provide take care of, distribute, the things necessary to sustain life
1c2) to take care of the poor and the sick, who administer the office of a deacon
1c3) in Christian churches to serve as deacons
1d) to minister
1d1) to attend to anything, that may serve another's interests
1d2) to minister a thing to one, to serve one or by supplying any thing

Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Matthew 4:11 Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and ministered <1247> unto him.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Matthew 8:15 And he touched her hand, and the fever left her: and she arose, and ministered <1247> unto them.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Matthew 20:28 Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto <1247>, but to minister <1247>, and to give his life a ransom for many.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Matthew 25:44 Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did <1247> not minister <1247> unto thee?
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Matthew 27:55 And many women were there beholding afar off, which followed Jesus from Galilee, ministering <1247> unto him:
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Mark 1:13 And he was there in the wilderness forty days, tempted of Satan; and was with the wild beasts; and the angels ministered <1247> unto him.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Mark 1:31 And he came and took her by the hand, and lifted her up; and immediately the fever left her, and she ministered <1247> unto them.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Mark 10:45 For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto <1247>, but to minister <1247>, and to give his life a ransom for many.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Mark 15:41 (Who also, when he was in Galilee, followed him, and ministered <1247> unto him;) and many other women which came up with him unto Jerusalem.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 4:39 And he stood over her, and rebuked the fever; and it left her: and immediately she arose and ministered <1247> unto them.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 8:3 And Joanna the wife of Chuza Herod's steward, and Susanna, and many others, which ministered <1247> unto him of their substance.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 10:40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve <1247> alone? bid her therefore that she help me.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 12:37 Blessed are those servants, whom the lord when he cometh shall find watching: verily I say unto you, that he shall gird himself, and make them to sit down to meat, and will come forth and serve <1247> them.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 17:8 And will not rather say unto him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and gird thyself, and serve <1247> me, till I have eaten and drunken; and afterward thou shalt eat and drink?
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 22:26 But ye shall not be so: but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve <1247>.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Luke 22:27 For whether is greater, he that sitteth at meat, or he that serveth <1247>? is not he that sitteth at meat? but I am among you as he that serveth <1247>.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	John 12:2 There they made him a supper; and Martha served <1247>: but Lazarus was one of them that sat at the table with him.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	John 12:26 If any man serve <1247> me, let him follow me; and where I am, there shall also my servant be: if any man serve <1247> me, him will my Father honour.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Acts 6:2 Then the twelve called the multitude of the disciples unto them, and said, It is not reason that we should leave the word of God, and serve <1247> tables.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Acts 19:22 So he sent into Macedonia two of them that ministered <1247> unto him, Timotheus and Erastus; but he himself stayed in Asia for a season.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Romans 15:25 But now I go unto Jerusalem to minister <1247> unto the saints.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	2 Corinthians 3:3 Forasmuch as ye are manifestly declared to be the epistle of Christ ministered <1247> by us, written not with ink, but with the Spirit of the living God; not in tables of stone, but in fleshy tables of the heart.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	2 Corinthians 8:19 And not that only, but who was also chosen of the churches to travel with us with this grace, which is administered <1247> by us to the glory of the same Lord, and declaration of your ready mind:
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	2 Corinthians 8:20 Avoiding this, that no man should blame us in this abundance which is administered <1247> by us:
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	1 Timothy 3:10 And let these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon <1247>, being found blameless.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	1 Timothy 3:13 For they that have used the office of a deacon <1247> well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	2 Timothy 1:18 The Lord grant unto him that he may find mercy of the Lord in that day: and in how many things he ministered unto me <1247> at Ephesus, thou knowest very well.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Philemon 1:13 Whom I would have retained with me, that in thy stead he might have ministered <1247> unto me in the bonds of the gospel:
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	Hebrews 6:10 For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered <1247> to the saints, and do minister <1247>.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	1 Peter 1:12 Unto whom it was revealed, that not unto themselves, but unto us they did minister <1247> the things, which are now reported unto you by them that have preached the gospel unto you with the Holy Ghost sent down from heaven; which things the angels desire to look into.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	1 Peter 4:10 As every man hath received the gift, even so minister <1247> the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.
Duty? __ Office? __	Physical? __ Spiritual? __	Servant? __ Leader? __	1 Peter 4:11 If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister <1247>, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.

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